It is not easy to put others first when we are hurting ourselves, but we must subordinate our own needs to something beyond our own self-interests. Though we often perceive our own needs as most important, and we worry, who is going to look out for me, it is definitely the time to set aside our own self-interests in order to be of service to others. The irony in how we sometimes act, to do what we perceive as a necessity, is that self-absoption ultimately drains our energy and impedes our performance, actually keeping us from attaining that what it is we wish or need to. The more pre-occupied we are with our own fears and concerns, the less energy we have available to take the positive action necessary to overcome them. And obviously we then have even less energy or inclination to help the people we are paid to help, and who now need our help, more than ever........our clients.
I truly believe that in order for everybody to get through these times in the mortgage and real estate industries, we must...............and I mean we MUST..........go the extra mile...........and not just as the cliche, but in practice.
As Nietzsche wrote, "He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how". Use this as your motivation in the morning, to do the best possible job you can for your clients, and you'll be amazed at what you can accomplish for them.
Thanks Bob! You are right! Sometimes I get "stuck in the mud" with emotional feelings of rejection or failure. Wears me down. "Get over it!" . . . and get going on something else is my motto for today. Thanks again and keep smiling!! Nancy Virta
ReplyDeleteWords to live by. Thank you for reiterating the often forgotten practice of service first. If it were easy...everyone would be doing it.
ReplyDeleteI believe in a way that these troubling times will help the industry "weed out" the fly by night employees and leave only the experienced professionals that truly value each relationship they build.
Slow and steady wins the race and service to your client will remain at the forefront of their thoughts for years to come.
Thanks again for the reminder!
Billy Grossmiller
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